I teach students of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu a lot. I always talk about tapping (submitting) before they roll.
Tapping is the beauty of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Tapping is the only reason we can do what we do — fight to the death with other Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu students. To the death.
We tap indicating, “If you don’t stop, you might kill me. Or, at least, break me.” I tap, I live; I don’t tap, I die.
Okay, I probably won’t literally die. But we’ve had our share of people “go to sleep” on the mat because s/he (okay, it’s always been a “he”) didn’t tap. Hell, in the past couple of weeks, I broke two white belts who didn’t tap.
Neither was my fault, as far as I’m concerned.
Let me set the scenario: I am small (usually a pound or two under 145) and I am old (47 as I write this). Most white belts are brutish, rugged, young animals whose motto is “Tap or be tapped at any cost.” Tapping to them is a weakness. A sign of failure.
White Belt No. 1 had 20 years and 100 lbs on me. He’s been around a while. Maybe a year. He’s knocking at the door of his blue belt. He knows stuff.
I got him in an armbar from the guard. His arm was bent as I was applying steady pressure, it wasn’t locked out. He was trying to use the single biceps muscle of his arm curl against the entire force of my back and shoulder muscles. He was at the point where he needed to use brute strength to survive; he doesn’t yet have the technical skills to counter where I had him.
He didn’t have enough strength. His elbow popped while it was still bent. I broke a white belt.
Tap. Motherfucker, tap.
White Belt No. 2 is a raw noob. He’s been at the school a couple of months. He has that personality where he thinks he know more than he does and isn’t progressing quickly enough. I have about 15 years on him and he’s about 50-60 pounds heavier than me.
He rolled strong and fast with all the grace of charging bull moose with a broken leg. I rode him for a little while from under guard. Just staying a beat or two in front of him. Never letting him get close enough to apply any pressure.
And then I swept him.
When I was on top of him, he pushed at me and allowed his upper arm to get away from his body. I filled the gap between his arm and body with parts of me and soon armbarred him.
Again, I applied steady pressure. He was holding on by a palm-to-palm grip and then, eventually, only his finger tips. I felt no need to use a technical grip break. As a matter of fact, I knew that he was already beaten — all I had to do was fall toward his head and rotate back around. But I wanted to attack his other arm, for my practice. I was enticing him to roll toward me so that I could spin to his other arm.
Oops! Too late, his fingers slipped and the armbar was applied. Not too strongly, but strong enough to hurt his elbow. Even then, it took him a moment to tap.
He came up rubbing his elbow. I broke another white belt.
Tap. Motherfucker, tap.
I tell these guys,
“Listen. Senior students are not impressed when you don’t tap. We’re laughing at the guys who don’t tap when they should. We’re happy for the guys that tap when they’re beat. We’ll roll with them any day.
“There is no shame in tapping. If you’re not tapping, you’re not learning. Learn to tap when you’re beat. If you’re beat and you’re not using technique to escape, then you’re not using jiu-jitsu. In that case, tap and start over and use jiu-jitsu again.
“I tap almost every day. And no one here has tapped more than our Professor.
“The tap allows us to fight at full strength and speed. But if I don’t trust you to tap when you’re beat, I’m not going to roll with the intensity that we both need (I may not even roll with you at all) — it’s a disservice to both of us. And that’s best case scenario; if you get to the wrong guy and you don’t tap, he might hurt you. There are some guys on the mat that don’t even care.
“Tapping also allows us to get out of our comfort zones and do things we wouldn’t ordinarily do. It allows us to try techniques, submissions, and transitions that are new to us. We are going to fail at these in the beginning and get ourselves into bad places. We might even get to the point where we have to submit. So be it! Good for us; we tried!
“So tap. Tap a lot. Tap early. Tap often. Especially as white belts.”
Okay. You might not believe me. I’m a lowly purple belt. Listen to Professor Ricardo Almeida, Renzo Gracie’s first black belt:
In many martial arts school, the instructor is the guy who is above everyone else and no one has ever seen him actually train.
In most Jiu Jitsu schools the instructor has earned the right to teach only because he has been tapped out more then anybody in class. Wether he would openly admit it or not …
I have no doubt that Grand Masters Carlos and Helio Gracie (the founders of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu) tapped more than any living practitioner.
And that is why I love Jiu Jitsu.
Tap, motherfucker. Tap.